Guys, girls and the stuff in between....

Have you ever had to listen to girls complain about guys? Have you ever heard them complain about there being no good guys? Now how often do you hear guys complain about that? I mean really do guys not care? Ummm... guys do conmplain to each other but they still fall for the pretty face or the easy mark dependant. Oh wait so do girls! Truth is we all play this stupid, stupid game because people are so blind when it comes to relationships. That's not what this is about though, this is about the frustratiing fact that girls don't realise something really important; looks aren't everything! Wait am I saying something obvious? Why yes I am and though most of you girls out there know this you still try and play that game. Now I have no objection to a girl wanting to look nice but any girl who thinks that's going to net her a quality guy is deluding herself. You can find a good looking girl on every corner but trying to find a quality girl is harder then finding a needle in a haystack. Now hold up I'm not just talking about dateing relationships I'm also talkig about friendships. I mean I don't really base a friendship off someones looks, that is straight up dumb. Anyways, girls, in this day and age guys start to get sick of that plastic exterior, it is a breath of fresh air to find a girl who shares your interests in life. This preoccupation with looks that people have these days, it ain't worth it. Don't play that game guys or girls. Not all girls can be super models and not all guys are shallow enough to want one. Hey I'll say that a couple of the truly, quality girls I know are absolutly stunning but that dosen't make them what they are. One thing they do all have in common though is that people love hanging with them and that's the way it should be, guys too. Hey I don't hang with guys much and I have my reasons but there are certain guys that everyone loves being around those few quality guys who are just as hard to find as the girls. So what's my deal? Throw the idea of looks first, out the window and find someone worth your time. It's a lot easier to love someone than it is to like them. Sort that one out and this will all make sense.